Women’s group questions progress on gender-based violence as anniversary approaches
As they approach their 10-year-anniversary, a women’s group is questioning how much progress we have made on the epidemic of gender-based violence.
It stems from a sign put up at an off-campus home at St. Franciss Xavier University that said, “Drop-off zone: Acadia girlfriends.”
Project coordinator of Be the Peace Institute, Stacey Godsoe, says they have done a lot of good work but incidents like this are exhausting.
“It just shows how normalized and misunderstood misogyny is still in our spaces, in university settings,” says Godsoe.
Intimate partner violence was declared an epidemic in Nova Scotia in 2024.

Sue Bookchin, co-founder and executive director, says it depends on the day but sometimes she is not very hopeful we have made much progress, either.
In the case of the sign off the St. FX campus, she says an incident like that would retraumatize any survivors of sexual assault who have never had accountability for what was done to them.
She says what interested her were some of the comments online talking about the sign being a joke, and some wondering what the real intent was behind the sign.
“What are you advocating for? What is the message you’re sending here? Is this supposed to be a joke? It is not a joke. These are real lives. This is real pain. This is long-lasting consequences for people,” she says.
“Would you want that to be your sister, or your niece, or your mother, or your girlfriend? Like, it’s just beyond me that people are so tone-deaf or so blind to this.”

The Be the Peace Institute does not offer direct services to women, but their projects focus on studying and understanding the root causes of gender-based violence to work toward systemic change.
The work in the gender-based violence sector is predominantly done by women.
But men have a key role to play, says Godsoe, to tackle these issues.
When men see or hear about things like what happened at St. FX, men must use their positions to speak up, says Godsoe.
“It’s so key that men feel equipped to in their spaces,” says Godsoe.
Later this month, on Oct. 17th, they are celebrating their 10-year anniversary.
They both say change like this takes time, a generational timeline, in fact, so it is hard to see the immediate impacts.
But reflecting on their work, they say funding is crucial to continuing.
Sustainable, core funding would give them even more capacity than they’ve had, which is part of the message they want to relay as they celebrate.
“Looking back, if we had had secure core funding, larger staff, greater capacity, absolutely, we would have been able to do more of what we did anyway,” says Godsoe.
Correction: A previous version of this story said The Be the Peace Institute was a women’s centre. In fact, they do not offer services directly to women. They work toward studying and understanding the root causes of gender-based violence.